
As i was sitting in my classroom one morning i notice that the classroom has a all different students that all have different abilities and make them who they are. As i was sitting there one morning the teacher put them into groups and didn't put the students with his or her friends but mixed them up with one another. As the children began to noticed that they weren't being in a group with their friends they began to become mad and upset. The teacher began to explain that they don't also need to be in a group with there friends and that everyone in the class are friends with one another. She also began to explain that when they get older they are going to have to work with people that they aren't best friends with or don't want to work with. As the teacher was explaining this to them one little boy began saying that the people in his group didn't like him and that they weren't his friends. After he was done talking the teacher explains to him that they are all friends because everyone in the class are like a big family with one another and that they are didn't not like him. Everyone in the class was very upset that they couldn't be with their friends.Once the children were given there assignment that had to be completed they totally forgot that they weren't with there best friends and work together in order to finish their work and get a good grade. I began to notice that all of the students worked so well together in there groups that you wouldn't even know that they didn't want to work with one another and that they weren't best friends with each other or that supposingly that they didn't like each other. The teacher integrated the students so that there wasn't just one boy in the group or one girl. She also didn't make a group of just boys or just girls. The teacher made sure that the children were all together and that they were working with other students that they usually don't work with. Even though the students didn't want to be in the groups without there friends they began to realize that it wasn't that bad to have to work with one another or work with other children that they usually wouldn't choose to work with by themselves.
Once the assignment was finished the teacher tried to explain to the children that it doesn't matter who you work with in a group or if there were friends because later in life it isn't going to matter.
She gave the example of it doesn't matter if your mom and dad don't drive the same type of car because they still are your parents and that they still love you the same as one another does. I thought that was a good way to put try an explain it to the children because if you sit there and think about what she was saying it made sense. That just because your mom might drive a blue SUV and you mad might drive a black car doesn't mean they don't love you more then the other or that they don't like each other. People can still be together if they aren't the same as someone else and that they don't always have to best friends with each other to have to work together.That day i came home and thought if i could relate this to a theorist that we read in class. Off the top of my head i couldn't think of one so that night i sat and looked through my binder and looked through the articles i had and rad a little of the Brown articles and figure out that i could relate some of it to my experience at the school. Lyn Mikel Brown talked about how people live with stereotypes in there lives everyday. for example he talked about female girls that were white, middle class. Not every teenage girl goes through the same experience growing up or going through there live. I no that me and my best friend didn't live the same life growing up. Her parents weren't divorced and mine were. Her parents mom didn't work she was a stay at home mom and her dad did. My parents both worked. Not every person has the same live as one another. Like my classroom with the students all working in groups but not being with their best friends or other children that they talk to all the time made they see that not everyone is like them and that people can be different then them. As the teacher was doing his to her students she realized that all her students are different in one way or another and that working in a group with other people can maybe make them see that even though they are boys and girls like them they are that they can be different but at the same time they are just like each other.

If i had a child that was in a classroom and wasn't behaving or the teacher wanted to speak to me about my son or daughter i would want to go in and see what was going on. I was shocked when she told me that. To think that a kindergarten parent doesn't want to hear or deal with the problems they are given a teacher now are just going to turn into a bigger problem in the future if it isn't fix early enough. I can understand that not all of the students parents might speak English but they can still make an effort to try and communicate with the teacher. My teacher explained to me that they parents of the children with ADHD and ADD are the ones that don't make an effort to talk to me if i send a note home or call. She began to explain to me that they are the ones that should want to hear what she has to say. She also began to explain to me that she does try to make an effort to communicate with the parents but she can only do so much in order for them to respond back and want to talk to her.

